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Sunday, October 05, 2008

Wedding Prep: Hotel Shopping for Customary Dinner

We met up with wedding coordinators from Marina Mandarin, Marriott and Mandarin Oriental.

By the time I post this entry up, kh and I have already decided on the hotel. Nevertheless, I would like to blog about the other two hotels as well for the coordinators from there gave us quite favourable impression. I hope that this would come in useful for my friends and my readers in the future. =D


Short notes on Fullerton, Swissotel, Grand Copthorne Waterfront:
We also had a short meeting with individuals from Fullerton and Swissotel but there isn't much to elaborate. The guy from Fullerton gave me the impression that he thought we could not afford to hold our wedding there. That was after kh mentioned that he was still pursuing his degree. He thought we were one of those knocked up early twenties couple perhaps. Kh is one who doesn't like to reveal his profession to sales staff so even though he was only a student as he had deferred studies and hold a distinguished (in my opinon at least) career, he would not reveal this to strangers.

I didn't exactly like the package Fullerton offered. It was expensive with not much offered except for the charming suite.

The package wasn't very enticing for Swissotel too.

For GCW, Whitelink signed us up for the wedding show as they had their gowns on display at that time. Hence, our fee was waived. It was the only wedding show we attended and I can't comment much on their service since it was a large scale affair. Also, it was way before our wedding prep that we attended that show and I can't recall lots of information.


Marina Mandarin
Marina Mandarin’s wedding coordinator is a humourous and affable lady. We had tea and coffee reception at the lounge served in English style (think of English silver plated tea set) with delectable cakes. Perfect for our ravaging tummies!

Previously when we consulted Fullerton, we only had drinks while Swissotel didn’t even offer a proper table with seats where we could discuss in comfort. I personally feel that first impression is highly essential. Of course, we didn’t eliminate Fullerton and Swissotel based on these grounds.

With our previous experiences, the serving of English style tea with cakes at MM was an evident upgrade.

She gave us quite a number of extra perks on top of the package. The suite was quite luxurious as well. A pity about their limited themes and wedding favours! They only had a gold and ivory theme and a red theme. She was well aware of their limitations and assured us that the whole wedding team at MM has been constantly bugging their boss to include more themes and favours.

We decided to forgo Marina Mandarin.


Marriott
I personally had extremely favourable impression of the wedding team at Marriott through numerous phone conversations. Smooth operator’s voice bubbling with enthusiasm and politeness greeted me whenever I called them.

The wedding coordinator assigned to us was such a lovely and pleasant lady. Their package was quite enticing. In addition, whatever we requested, she was more than willing to accord to us. They were quite flexible to most of our requests.

The wedding suite was pretty. I thought MM’s wedding suite was better but kh begged to differ. We like their wide variety of wedding favours, especially the glass ruler which could act as a paperweight.

Even though they didn’t have my black and red table cloth theme, they have a reddish black organza to spread over the tablecloth — reddish on one side and blackish on the other — which I thought could very well fit into my black and red ideal theme.

The best part of the night was our complimentary dinner at Wan Hao restaurant (their signature restaurant and wedding banquet restaurant). We did not even confirm any booking— we only made tentative bookings. We could hardly believe our ears when the wedding coordinator told us it would be her treat after asking if we had any dinner plans. She added that it would be a good way to sample their food and there was totally no obligation.

Rewind one hour back…

On our journey to Marriott, both of us were dying of famine. While waiting at the lobby, we were eyeing the delectable cakes and desserts neatly placed in rows. I told kh we had to tell her that we hadn’t had our dinner and that we were dying of hunger. He replied, “You think what? Tell her that and she will bring the whole restaurant to you meh?”

Well indeed, she really brought the restaurant to us.

It was our first time at Wan Hao. We were quite impressed with the classy zen chinois décor. I love their black table cloth! A pity there is no black table cloth wedding theme.

The dinner was fantastic! I love their soup, scallop with asparagus and desserts. The scallop asparagus was so delicious that I had craving for asparagus and scallop for the next few days after that. Their dragon fruit dessert is really unique. Simply love the gush of red wine over it.

Their service was personable. A “waitress” (we think that she is not really a waitress but someone of higher rank) was assigned to us and we really love her recommendations.

Before she came along, we held the menus in our hands for a long time, quite clueless as to what was appropriate to order since somebody was paying for it. To tell you the truth, the usually glutton us were quite pai seh to order anything too expensive, but how not to when everything on the menu is priced exorbitantly?

She is quite cute la. We enquired if the asparagus scallop dish could be included as one of the dishes in the banquet and she advised us to refer to our wedding coordinator. She added that she would be happy to accord to our requests and would be glad to see us again during food tasting. Little does she know that we had yet to confirm our booking at that time.

Kh and I love Marriott’s service a lot!


Mandarin Oriental
We would have decided on Marriott if not for the fateful day I bought the latest issue of Style Wedding and saw a small little snapshot of Mandarin Oriental’s…..

Drumroll…..

BLACK AND RED THEME!

Knowing that kh was tired of hotel shopping, I begged him to make Mandarin Oriental our final stop.

It was a good thing I did.

It turned out that the wedding coordinator assigned to us is kh’s cousin’s friend-colleague. What a coincidence!

I love Oriental’s theme a lot.

I totally dig the black or dark table cloth with red roses kinda look.

Besides Regent, I didn’t know where else had the black tablecloth theme until I stumbled onto Oriental.

For Oriental, the black theme is known as the “Dream theme” where mystical silver organza ribbons and lilac-coloured roses would contrast against the black tablecloth.

I am so in love with the brilliant centerpiece which looks like roses on ice. Even though the whole theme didn’t turn out as black and red as was my oversight from the photos, we could change the lilac roses to red ones. I would love the silver organza to be changed to red ones but that wasn’t allowed.

without flash


with flash


Even though we went there especially for the “Dream Theme”, I was quite captivated by their “Happiness Theme” which is a passionate ensemble of brilliant shades personifying the glamorous Orient. The whole look isn’t CHEENA but CHINOIS instead. The look boasts a sophisticated fusion of Shanghai Tang meets the West.

without flash


with flash


Pretty eh? It matches my favourite black and red ensemble more than my black, silver and purple theme which I think I would eventually settle for. However, I figured the “Happiness Theme” looks good only because of the black drapes against the wall which contrast with the red décor.

The photo was taken during a show and the original colour of Oriental’s ballroom’s walls is brown. The brown walls wouldn’t really bring out the beauty of the red décor. Should their walls be black, I would definitely jump at the “Happiness Theme”.

The “Garden Theme”


Oh so sunny, something different from the usual roses garden party feel.

The city suite which would be used as the bridal suite.


It has a luxe business feel to it. kh likes it. I thought it is pretty but it hasn’t got much of a bridal feel to it. I guess the rose decorations, chocolate coated strawberries and bubbly champagne on the actual day would add a touch of romance.

Have I told you how excited I was when I read about Oriental’s elegant fan-shaped ballroom?

In my mind’s eye, I could envision how grand the ballroom was. Fancy a grand march in from the middle of the “fan”.



However, when we viewed the actual ballroom, it was nowhere near a fan!

It was an ARC!

The usual march in would be an L-shape march in.


A long march in would be possible with lesser tables.


Marching in along a curve seems weird, no?

I noticed that there were many other doors besides the one on the left of the ballroom. There was even one in the middle of the arc! Insistent on having a dream march in from the centre of the fan ARC, I enquired if we could do it.



Our wedding coordinator paused for a moment and said it is not possible as the soundtrack would be less than a minute!

Boohoo!

She talked to us like old friends and was pretty frank about many things. Not exactly very professional but in a way, it’s beneficial to us.

Package-wise, Oriental was even more enticing than Marriott. We were comparing every single detail which Marriott upgraded or threw in free for us and Oriental beats hands down.

Food-wise, kh and I thought Marriott should be better. Our wedding coordinator said that Oriental’s banquet chef specializes in preparing meals for large scale banquets. He cannot really do small portions well but she assured us that the quality of food during the wedding day would be much better than during food tasting.

Kh and I have never attended any weddings at Oriental before so we dunno about how good or bad the food is.

I was keeping my fingers crossed and half-believing her till one day big boss told me that the best wedding dinner food he and his wife had ever eaten was at Oriental. He told me how impressive it was as compared to Marriott which is supposedly known for their food.

Well, I really hope I can trust big boss. I asked in jest if he had said it just coz he knew I was considering between Oriental and Marriott. Guess what? He said in mandarin that he always exaggerates but I’ve to trust his wife’s taste.

I’m so gonna take his word for it.

Nice not I say one ah.

So folks, next year if you do attend my wedding, please don’t blame me if the food sucks k?

Kh had just sent a confirmation email to our tentative booking.

Despite the many perks, one negative point about Oriental is that the deposit is quite high and we have to pay half the amount of the total cost a month before the wedding date. Most hotels allow full payment after the dinner or upon checking out when the couple could lug their big wads of cash from the ang pow to pay.

We are gonna be poor souls soon.

Thursday, October 02, 2008

$200 is a lot for non-believers

Today, kh and I spent more than an hour and more than $200 at Times of Feng Shui.

“What? Go all the way to Parkway Parade just to buy feng shui stuff?” he cried like a petulant child, almost disbelieving that his once cynical fiancée had completely lost her mind.

In the end, he spent more than me.

By the way, the title of this post is an sms exclamation quoted from a dear friend of mine who believes in feng shui. I won’t be dropping names just in case she doesn’t want it to be known.

Before you diss me off as being dumb to believe in feng shui, let me tell you that I used to be very skeptical. I used to wonder what all the chi about feng shui is. However, I started to think otherwise when the keychain I bought 2 years back had been bringing me smooth luck for quite some time.

At that time, while my friends were busy asking the sales assistant for recommendations, I happily browsed through all the charms, wondering what these little jokers could do to alter one’s life.

The Trinity Ally Coin keychain, as recommended by the sales assistant there, is for general wellbeing. For those born in the year of the Dog, their allies would be Rabbit, Horse and Tiger with the former two coinciding with my daddy and mummy’s zodiac!

The Trinity Coin is also said to bring excellent friendship, networking and mentor luck. I bought it without believing, thinking that the Trinity Ally Coin would make such an exquisite keychain for me.

Ever since I had the keychain, many aspects of my life became so 顺利 (smooth-sailing) that it was unbelievable.

It may be pure coincidence but it’s amazing how everything fell into place easily.

Currently, the golden part of the coin has worn off and I thought it’s time I replaced it. Moreover, since my life isn’t as smooth-sailing as before, I thought of buying other charms as well.

You know, I’m such a lazy bum when it comes to decision-making that I hope that these charms would just pave a smooth road for me without me having to do much.

For this erroneous reason, I forced kh to spend a valuable public holiday with me just to go to Parkway Parade.

It was a prolific trip for us!

We were quite fortunate to meet the boss, who did a quick face-reading of kh when we were standing at the counter trying on a tian zhu bracelet. Besides some general analysis and predictions, he added that I’m very fortunate to marry such a guy like kh.

I don’t really believe in the predictions as he said some things which probably could not happen since kh is studying now. We’ll wait and see.

I bought 3 items for myself, 1 for my da jie as her birthday present and another for the family.

I was pleasantly surprised that my family was quite receptive to hanging the not-very-aestically-designed health and wealth gourd which I bought for the family. Even though mum was stunned by the amount all the items cost, she did not chide me for being silly and wasting money like she usually does. My dad was super onz about hanging the charm that he immediately took down a way-overdue Chinese New Year decoration and replaced it with the charm.

Right now, I’m waiting for the auspicious timing to open two of my charms which would be in a few days time.

Wednesday, October 01, 2008

Before we say “goodbye” to September

I've been writing the draft for this entry in bits and pieces over the past 2 weeks. It was collecting virtual cobwebs when I took it out today, 5th October.

An appropriate word to describe the month of September would be:

“HECTIC”

Looking at the slots in my printable monthly calendar, finding an empty slot is like finding an iguana in my house!

Oh man… What a month!

October would be the same, as in, I would still not be able to find that iguana.

Filling up to empty slots are:
private tuition
forced extra lessons for one particular class at work
impromptu meet ups
appointments with wedding coordinators of different hotels
more private tuition

When I thought I could rest after that, it suddenly dawn on me that the new academic term is approaching in October and I’ve yet to plan the SOW (Scheme of Work) for my Primary English. There are also those additional materials which we have to churn out for the last lesson of the academic year of 2008.

My nice colleague-subordinate in the dept has really been helping me a lot and I’m thankful for that.

My nice colleague-superior has been very kind in allowing me to claim my many time offs, take a few half day leaves and even changing of off days for a week just so that I could settle all my personal issues.

I’ve told her very honestly the reson for my time offs and leaves and she was understanding about it. She could even say things like “Happy tuitioning” and “Happy getting married”.

It is times like this that makes me wonder if there is another company out there that is so flexible with their staff’s timing.

From the back of my mind, I could hear my mum’s voice ringing in my head “Don’t quit la. Which company so good, let you take so much time off to go and give tuition?” She even advised me not to do it too often as they may think that I’m out attending job interviews.

Well… We’ll see how it goes…

I’m having a hard time recollecting my thoughts and sorting them out. When I attempt to sit down to blog, I don’t know where and how to start.

Now I recall why I named my blog “Jolene’s Jumbled Jardinière”.

I hate my writing skills now. I don’t speak as well as I write and now that my writing has deteriorated, I really hate myself.

Since I was talking about work, let’s continue from there.


Corporate Photoshoot

I was involved in a coporate photo shoot. I tonged my hair by myself with my new hair curling tong from Braun. I liked the effect of it.

Off to work


By the end of the day


During the photoshoot, scheming big boss decreed that whoever involved in the shoot are not to leave the company any time in the near future as they would be using us in posters and advertisements.

After he said that, I spared no formality and said that I would not wanna be involved then. He then brought me to an empty room for “counseling” and persuaded me to stay for 1 year longer. I just shrugged my shoulders and made a short comment.

From a serious tone, he switched to his jovial tone as he entered the room where the photoshoot was held and boldly announced that if anyone were to ask who the people in the posters are, simply answer that they are models. He added on that some people in the poster would probably leave and hence that would be the safest answer to give.

Due to the fact that he was laughing, everyone thought it was really funny and laughed along. Actually I kinda thought that was quite hilrarious too, especially since I knew what he said to me before that.

Anyway, I find that I look horrid in the photos. I don’t think anyone would be able to recognise me. Then again, maybe I look so horrendous that the marketing dept would not even wanna use those shots with me in them.

After wearing fitted long sleeved button shirt, pencil skirt and high-heeled court shoes for half the day, I could not wait to get home to change into more comfy clothes and footwear before teaching my night classes at KT.

I also concluded that I am probably not tailored for the corporate world.

If you ask me to dress like that the whole day, I would be tugging and pulling at my shirt every minute while I suffocate to death.


A memorable Mid Autumn

I think my memory is really bad.

I kept thinking that I haven’t celebrated Mid Autumn Festival for a looooong time.

I totally forgot that I did celebrate for the past 2 years.

Mid Autumn last year
Mid Autumn 2006

I believe I still hold that young girl’s dream of carrying lantern together with her beau, walking hand in hand in the dark, with just the light from our lanterns to light the path.

I haven’t done that despite being with my beau for 7… gosh… or is it 8 years?

This year we had a very private affair at bei’s family loft.

We didn’t intend to celebrate Mid Autumn but it just so happened that we chose our meet up on that day.

Bei’s house was so ulu that xtina and I got lost.

It was cumbersome getting there.

We had to get out of the cab to exchange for passes with our IC.


The cab driver wasn’t exactly very nice and helpful.

I shan’t elaborate more.

We were really touched when bei prepared these…

A simply decorated table


lanterns




mooncake (added by me)


a bowl of pistachio


Such sweet thoughts!

Ours legs and lanterns through the glass’s reflection.


The views around…









I really like how her books are arranged on the shelf in such haphazard manner. It’s so cosy.



The environmentally friendly xtina got chopsticks for us.


It’s in the drawer of my workstation now. I’ve yet to use it as I kept eating rice the past few weeks.

Chats and updates amidst wine, pistachios and mooncake all atop the roof…

Save for the warm and humid weather, we had a good time that night.

It was short. We wished we could stay longer but everyone had to work the next day.




This little kitty



I love this little kitty. It lives somewhere near my tutees' block. Whenever I show my sisters photos and video I took of her on my hp, they would squeal for me to catnap her home.



Then, my mother would go, "You better dun ah. Simba in the urn jumping around and protesting."



By the way, I nicknamed her "that Kimba cat" coz firstly she is whitish, light greyish in colour which resembles "Kimba the white lion" and secondly, it rhymes with "Simba". She has resemblance to Simba only that she is white with grey markings.

I think Kimba is a house cat, confined indoors yet slipping out of the house to roam about the void deck every now and then as I only see her once in a while.

She is super affectionate! She often rolls around my feet and rubs her body against mine.

It was difficult to take good pictures of her as she was always rolling around and rubbing herself against me and my stuff.







Ah! Finally!


She's so mischievous.


Fancy resting her tail on my foot, looking up and purr innocently.

The last two times I saw her, she kept following me.


Watch till 2:28 almost at the end when she headed my camera with a thud.

I've got a lot of cute videos of her but my hp resolution isn't too good.

[Side note: When I was posting this up, I realised that I haven't posted any video of Simba online before. All her cuter videos are on my hp and the resolution is too grainy to post up online. Poor baba!]

Well, have you seen ninja cat before?

Watch this! She's really adorable!



She could really go closer and closer to the camera without much detectable movement. I like how she tilts her head while keeping so still each time the camera shoots her.

Reminds me a little of those jap horror film where the ghost take a step closer and closer to the camera, only that you replace the "ghost" with a cute kitty.


Coz of inflation...

Four of us bought a miserable cup of green tea to share at Mac while we chatted for hours on end.

Inflation mah. Must save money.


Hand-made birthday cards for viv & joyce

A vege theme card for joyce, hand-made by viv
viv card front
[Photo credit: joyce]

It's a coincidence that the 4 of us like brocoli.

A sweet colour pencil illustration theme for viv, hand-drawn by me, punching of holes and tying of strings by joyce






~*~*~

I’ve got lots to write about my wedding preparations but I’ll do it in another post.

Well, hello October!


[Picture credit: flickr]

Sunday, September 28, 2008

dog tired...



Balancing work and tuition everyday.

Tutee is having his PSLE.

I'm more stressed for him than he is for himself.

I wish to have more sleep.

After everything, I will try to take a short break to simply sleep my time away.

I hope.

Thursday, September 25, 2008

I had a fruitful off day

Yes! I did not do a single piece of work during my off day today.

I went back to ex co to have a good chat with wy as well as to pay a visit to the hh babes. It was term break for them so they were all quite relaxed.

I was really lucky to meet up with fellow ex staff. It was such a sweet coincidence that one was back from Japan and another had taken leave and dropped by.

At times, I really miss those big and sometimes long lunch sessions of the past.

Wy and I have got so much to catch up that we didn’t quite realise that time wasn’t on our side. In a flash, the hands on the clock depicted a time which was way past her knock off time.

She was so sweet to bring her “secret manual” (秘密 was what she termed it as) just for me. It is actually a log book of all her wedding prep. It was indeed useful! I could never be as organised as her in my thoughts and planning.

We talked a lot about wedding prep. So em and hs, you didn’t miss out a lot in your absence. Hehe… for if you two were present, you would have been bored to tears.

Sweet sweet wy! As I’m typing this, I saw my email that she had sent me a template of her actual day wedding schedule. Normally, she is just like me—a great big procrastinator.

We also talked a lot about work. I’m really thankful for this “F4” (em, hs, wy, me) group of buddies. The four of us knew each other in ex co but up till now even though we are all in very different fields, we could really understand and relate to each other’s situation very well.

I’m so happy for her that she’s finally leaving ex co and that she has gotten another job, related to her field of studies, so quickly. After harbouring thoughts of leaving for so long, this is it finally.
I also shared with her my dilemma about reconsidering leaving my current co.

There were new updates which affected my decision and I’ve to give an answer soon. I was drawing out all the pros and cons to wy and she advised me to stay on.

em and hs, I wanna share this with you gals too but I dunno when’s the next time we are able to meet. Anyway, I would be quite sure both of you would advise me to stay on too.

Well, if that’s the case, I’ve to commit 1.5 more years.


[picture credit: Chrissie White]

Life is always full of decisions. Sometimes, you know what is best for you and go all out for it. At other times, you know what is right for you, yet you waver, unsure if it is truly the best. On some occasions, you have to take a longer time to figure out and slowly experience the process of your decision in order to know if you’ve made a right choice.

I do know what I want for my future -- family-wise. However, career-wise, I’m not sure if I could give a definite answer. My dream has remained the same but the journey to get there has been a little more unpredictable.

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